Nick's first couple of days after chemo were up and down, some nausea, some tiredness, some unsettled stomach, but between the meds that counter the side effects of the chemo and the meds that counter the side effects of the meds that counter the side effects of the chemo, and some strategically-placed sleep breaks, he's … Continue reading Have yourself a hygge little Christmas
Category: Nick’s Cancer Journey
Treatment time
I'm writing this at Nick's bedside in the hospital while the chemotherapy drugs are flowing through the IV into his bloodstream. It's a very mixed feeling to have these toxic chemicals going into him while at the same time knowing that this is what will make him better. Yesterday he had a PICC line put … Continue reading Treatment time
What we can control
Nick stayed in Kingston Saturday night and slammed his jacket for the full hour and forty-seven minutes. He’s now easily recognizable as a Queen’s engineering student (and has the sore muscles to prove it). Below, pre-slam pic with Eric and Caleb, two of the three guys he'll be sharing a house with next year. Ray … Continue reading What we can control
Staging and Purpling
When we first got Nick's diagnosis three weeks ago, the Ear Nose & Throat specialist told us that he was fairly certain Nick had lymphoma. A week later, the hematologist confirmed that it was Hodgkin's lymphoma and that Nick had a 13 cm mass in his chest. This on its own meant that the disease … Continue reading Staging and Purpling
Small kindnesses and simple pleasures
Nick was back at school this week to see whether he was up to writing his finals or not. I have to say, Queen's University has been absolutely fantastic. We got the diagnosis on a Friday and the following Monday (after the 5:30 am text from Nick that his face was puffed up and he … Continue reading Small kindnesses and simple pleasures
Testing Day
Before his day of medical procedures, Nick had to take a triple dose of Prednisone – one the evening before, one at four am and one at ten that morning – plus a double dose of Benadryl, to prevent him from having another allergic reaction after the CT scan. His day started with an EKG, … Continue reading Testing Day
Some very difficult news…
Let me start by apologizing for delivering this news by email, as many of you are hearing about this for the first time. Please understand that it takes a lot of energy for us to talk about this and we need to reserve that energy for each other right now. Nick has been diagnosed with … Continue reading Some very difficult news…





