Don’t Assume It’s Personal

I had a humbling experience this week. And not the, I'm-so-humbled-to-win-this-award kind, but the I'm-not-as-smart-as-I-think kind. Years ago, I read about The Four Agreements, which are: Be Impeccable With Your Word. Don’t Take Anything Personally. Don’t Make Assumptions. Always Do Your Best. If you can manage to do those things, it's quite powerful...but it's hard. … Continue reading Don’t Assume It’s Personal →

Hosting Adventures: Cycling, Guests, and Life Lessons

We put a hold on accepting cross-country cyclists as guests for a while, but we've still been doing our fair share of hosting this past week. My sister was here for a couple of days, though she doesn't really count as a 'guest', more like an occasional resident. We ate nachos at a waterfront restaurant … Continue reading Hosting Adventures: Cycling, Guests, and Life Lessons →

How important are shared interests in a relationship?

We hosted five Warm Showers guests this week, two couples around our age, and a university student. All five had set off from the west coast and are cycling to the east coast. When one of the couples arrived, I told them Ray was out sailing. They saw a bike hanging in the garage and … Continue reading How important are shared interests in a relationship? →